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Mailbag: Do I deserve better in my relationship?

By • Jun 24th, 2010 • Category: Reader Mailbag

Q: I don’t know where to begin. My boyfriend and I have been with each other for 2.5 years now. We were best friends and coworkers before we got into a relationship. There is a lot that is similar about us, but also a lot that is very different. The differences have caused a lot of [...]



Mailbag: Help! My fiance is suddenly getting cold feet

By • Jun 11th, 2010 • Category: Reader Mailbag

Q: My fiance is having second thoughts about getting married. It was his idea in the first place to get engaged. Everything was going great, so I started planning. He became less and less interested in the planning process. When I confronted him he said that he wanted to wait till after our daughter was born [...]



Mailbag: My boyfriend says he doesn’t have those feelings anymore for me

By • May 28th, 2010 • Category: Reader Mailbag

Q: My boyfriend recently broke up with me and I am having a terrible time adjusting. He says that he deeply cares about me and is physically attracted to me but just doesn’t have “those feelings” anymore. The problem is that I am completely in love with him and feel like he is the one. I [...]



Mailbag: Help: My girl won’t sleep with me and believes in infidelity

By • May 21st, 2010 • Category: Reader Mailbag

Q: Its been 4 months into my new relationship, and its been great for the most part. We both get along so well, conversations are long and even profound, and we are so much alike that things just flow. It sounds perfect, but here’s the catch, she’s lost faith in love, and is afraid of future [...]



Mailbag: I fell headfirst in love with a guy, but he is pushing me away!

By • May 13th, 2010 • Category: Reader Mailbag

Q: I met this wonderful man on Match.com and we really connected. He is 40. I am 32. We started going out over a month ago. For some reason, I felt really comfortable with him and revealed alot about myself to him right away: The fact that I was raped 10 years ago, the fact that [...]



Mailbag: Help! I’m on the backburner because of the kids!

By • May 6th, 2010 • Category: Reader Mailbag

Q: Hi. I’d like to start off by giving some history about my situation. I have been with the woman I love 9 years ago. We broke up because we were young and dumb. Needless to say, we are 30 now and back together for 4 months now. We have a 8 year old daughter [...]



A new arrival

By • Apr 20th, 2010 • Category: For Couples

As many faithful readers of this site have noticed, I haven’t been posting as many articles of late as I usually do. And there’s a really good reason for that. My wife and I welcomed our newborn son into the world on March 29, 2010. Suffice it to say, it is a really big change, [...]



Research: Good sex more important than successful career

By • Mar 25th, 2010 • Category: For Couples

In a very interesting article in the New York Times entitled The Sandra Bullock Trade, columnist David Brooks wonders whether you would exchange a career triumph for a personal blow. In other words, would you rather have, like Sandra Bullock, an Academy Award and a cheating husband, or an average career and marriage bliss? According [...]



Latest Research: Online Dating Statistics Revealed

By • Mar 23rd, 2010 • Category: Dating

Below is a chart illustrating recent research into online dating trends, conducted by some website called onlineschools.org. Not exactly sure how this research was compiled, but a few of the startling highlights that the data shows include: China has the largest number of online daters at 140 million. The US has 40 million users. eHarmony [...]



Jesse James allegedly cheats on Sandra Bullock: An Analysis

By • Mar 18th, 2010 • Category: For Couples

So sometimes things do seem to good to be true. Recent reports allege that Sandra Bullock’s husband Jesse James has been carrying on an affair with some tattooed bimbo called Michelle “Bombshell” McGee for the past 11 months and supposedly she has proof via saved text messages. Something must have happened since Sandra Bullock moved [...]