I’m a huge fan of the Twilight movie series. Not because I’m a sucker for gooey teenage love romances or I think it’s particularly breathtaking movie making. No, I love these movies because it’s written by a woman for girls, and so gives a backstage look at women’s desires and fantasies. As I sit and [...]

Apparently researchers in Sweden have discovered a gene that has a significant impact on the mating habits of males, specifically their chances of committing to a relationship and bonding in a monogamous relationship. There is a hormone, vasopressin that influences social behavior in males. Studies show that males who have a higher amount of vasopressin [...]

I get a lot of questions in my inbox from readers of the site and most of them are actually from female readers. Just as is usually the case in real life, people’s biggest problems are usually mostly or even completely self-created.  Often the problem isn’t with the other person, but rather with our own [...]

You just met a cute guy at a party, you’ve been talking to him for over half an hour, he’s charming and a good conversationalist. You’d love to see him again after the party, he seems interested in you, but he’s just not going for the number. What’s wrong with this guy? Or you’ve already [...]

I had a conversation recently with a psychotherapist who specializes in couples and marriage therapy and she mentioned that one of the most common problems that she sees in marriages is when the husband is gone at work for many hours, then gets home too tired to do anything, while the wife has more time [...]

Sometimes when you start dating a new guy, you may have some mixed signals, and you don’t know how to interpret it. You are starting to fall for him, but at the same time you don’t want to get hurt and you want to make sure his heart is in the right place. So how [...]

It’s NFL playoff season and the Super Bowl is coming up, which only means one thing for many American woman- their guys disappear over the weekend doing nothing but watching football.  It can be frustrating to deal with an absent boyfriend or husband, so what’s a girl to do to deal with this situation? First, [...]

I often get questions regarding some sort of sexually-related frustrations both from couples and singles. For something that should be so pleasurable, there is a lot of anxiety out there surrounding this act. One of the most frequent questions in this regard is from women who are either a) having trouble orgasming with their partner [...]

You’ve been dating your guy for a while now, over a year. You’ve been dropping hints about wanting a more serious commitment, but he acts like he just doesn’t get what you’re trying to say.  It seems that, as far as he’s concerned, he could maintain the status quo indefinitely and wouldn’t even mind. You [...]

A few years back (actually 1995) a book called “The Rules” came out and hit the best seller list. This book instructed women how to land a guy who will fall head over heels in love with them and give them a ring shortly thereafter.  There was much debate and publicity about this book because [...]