Archives for the ‘Reader Mailbag’ Category

Mailbag: Help, I just can’t move on!

By Relationshiplab • Feb 2nd, 2010 • Category: Reader Mailbag

Q: I have been in a relationship for almost a year. To give you a little background, we met and shortly after we started dating, and shortly after that she moved in with me. That was probably 8 or 9 months ago.
Now my problem is that for the past couple of months I have felt [...]



Mailbag- Everything was perfect, what happened?

By Relationshiplab • Dec 24th, 2009 • Category: Reader Mailbag

Q: Hi, thanks for your time.
A girl I have been seeing for about three months now has all of a sudden decided that she wants to take a break from me. Here’s my story:
I’ve known of this beautiful and intelligent girl for years but never made any attempt at meeting her. Three months ago we [...]



Mailbag: Went on a date, but the guy acted weird

By Relationshiplab • Sep 16th, 2009 • Category: Reader Mailbag

Q: I wish I found this site 3 days ago. For a little over 2 months, an acquaintance seemed to give subtle hints he was interested in me. I frequently responded in kind. Three days ago he phoned out of the blue and asked if I wanted to go to a ballgame that afternoon. I [...]



Mailbag: Can emails destroy a relationship?

By Relationshiplab • Sep 10th, 2009 • Category: Reader Mailbag

Q: Hi, I was wondering if emails tend to destroy long distance relationships? My husband and I are in different countries right now, and we email more than call. I’ve noticed we tend to fight more and when I write him a letter expressing my POV on a subject, he usually takes it wrong because [...]



Mailbag: How do I learn to love myself?

By Relationshiplab • Sep 9th, 2009 • Category: Reader Mailbag

Q: Hi, my boyfriend of two and a half years has broken up with me. We had dated for a year or so and we had broken up but we got back together because we thought there was something left between us. Now that we have broken up twice, do you think there is another [...]



Mailbag: My girlfriend wants to do porn!

By Relationshiplab • Sep 4th, 2009 • Category: Reader Mailbag

Q: Hey dude- love your blog. Got a question for you bro- my girl has been talking about doing porno on the internet for extra cash- nothing hardcore, know what I’m saying?  Just cam stuff- I don’t know what to think…. you look like you know what you are talking ’bout. What do you think?
-Sam
A: [...]



Mailbag: Should I go through with an arranged marriage?

By Relationshiplab • Sep 3rd, 2009 • Category: Reader Mailbag

Q: If you have been dreaming for someone for eight years and one day one person comes along who is exactly who you’ve been dreaming of,  then what should you do even if you are supposed to have an arranged marriage? Please reply quickly.

A: Thanks for the question and coming here for guidance before you [...]



Mailbag: My gf reminds me too much of my ex

By Relationshiplab • Sep 2nd, 2009 • Category: Reader Mailbag

Q: I’m starting to date a woman that I’m very attracted to and that I always have fun with. Sounds good, right? Well, I’m worried because, when I think about it, she reminds me a lot of an ex that I was particularly close to. Is this bad? I don’t want to go into it if [...]



Mailbag: Help! I am pushing away my partner by being too nice

By Relationshiplab • Sep 1st, 2009 • Category: Reader Mailbag

Q: I have been going out with my partner for 6 months and I have to say (I know this is cheesy) but she really is ‘the one’. She has a small child and runs her own business so is ultra busy. She’s also just been diagnosed with an illness. 

Lately, the physical nature of the relationship [...]



Mailbag: Is it possible to reclaim attraction once it is gone?

By Relationshiplab • Aug 10th, 2009 • Category: Reader Mailbag

Q: I met a guy 3 years ago. We went on 3 wonderful dates (I fell for him hard) and then he dumped me. He said he did not get butterflies when he saw me. Weird, as he had jokingly proposed to me on every date. After 3 years of no contact he emailed me [...]