Archives for the ‘Reader Mailbag’ Category

Mailbag: My boyfriend says he doesn’t have those feelings anymore for me

By • May 28th, 2010 • Category: Reader Mailbag

Q: My boyfriend recently broke up with me and I am having a terrible time adjusting. He says that he deeply cares about me and is physically attracted to me but just doesn’t have “those feelings” anymore. The problem is that I am completely in love with him and feel like he is the one. I [...]



Mailbag: Help: My girl won’t sleep with me and believes in infidelity

By • May 21st, 2010 • Category: Reader Mailbag

Q: Its been 4 months into my new relationship, and its been great for the most part. We both get along so well, conversations are long and even profound, and we are so much alike that things just flow. It sounds perfect, but here’s the catch, she’s lost faith in love, and is afraid of future [...]



Mailbag: I fell headfirst in love with a guy, but he is pushing me away!

By • May 13th, 2010 • Category: Reader Mailbag

Q: I met this wonderful man on Match.com and we really connected. He is 40. I am 32. We started going out over a month ago. For some reason, I felt really comfortable with him and revealed alot about myself to him right away: The fact that I was raped 10 years ago, the fact that [...]



Mailbag: Help! I’m on the backburner because of the kids!

By • May 6th, 2010 • Category: Reader Mailbag

Q: Hi. I’d like to start off by giving some history about my situation. I have been with the woman I love 9 years ago. We broke up because we were young and dumb. Needless to say, we are 30 now and back together for 4 months now. We have a 8 year old daughter [...]



Mailbag: My wife and I aren’t getting along but she wants a baby!

By • Mar 5th, 2010 • Category: Reader Mailbag

Q: My wife has been very distant for about a month now. I’ve discussed it with her and she explains that it’s due to the different careers we are both headed for. Our careers are possibly going to cause us to separate for months at a time. She says it concerns her and now we [...]



Mailbag: She used to treat me as a boyfriend, but now we are merely platonic friends

By • Feb 26th, 2010 • Category: Reader Mailbag

Q: I was very close to a female friend of mine. She used to treat me as her boyfriend. Due to some misunderstanding, she now feels I am a platonic friend. I thought I had cleared it up out in the open, but she still feels the pinch of it. Actually she is now feeling [...]



Mailbag: Help, I just can’t move on!

By • Feb 2nd, 2010 • Category: Reader Mailbag

Q: I have been in a relationship for almost a year. To give you a little background, we met and shortly after we started dating, and shortly after that she moved in with me. That was probably 8 or 9 months ago. Now my problem is that for the past couple of months I have [...]



Mailbag- Everything was perfect, what happened?

By • Dec 24th, 2009 • Category: Reader Mailbag

Q: Hi, thanks for your time. A girl I have been seeing for about three months now has all of a sudden decided that she wants to take a break from me. Here’s my story: I’ve known of this beautiful and intelligent girl for years but never made any attempt at meeting her. Three months [...]



Mailbag: Went on a date, but the guy acted weird

By • Sep 16th, 2009 • Category: Reader Mailbag

Q: I wish I found this site 3 days ago. For a little over 2 months, an acquaintance seemed to give subtle hints he was interested in me. I frequently responded in kind. Three days ago he phoned out of the blue and asked if I wanted to go to a ballgame that afternoon. I [...]



Mailbag: Can emails destroy a relationship?

By • Sep 10th, 2009 • Category: Reader Mailbag

Q: Hi, I was wondering if emails tend to destroy long distance relationships? My husband and I are in different countries right now, and we email more than call. I’ve noticed we tend to fight more and when I write him a letter expressing my POV on a subject, he usually takes it wrong because [...]