Q: I met this wonderful man on Match.com and we really connected. He is 40. I am 32. We started going out over a month ago. For some reason, I felt really comfortable with him and revealed alot about myself to him right away: The fact that I was raped 10 years ago, the fact that [...]

Q: Hi. I’d like to start off by giving some history about my situation. I have been with the woman I love 9 years ago. We broke up because we were young and dumb. Needless to say, we are 30 now and back together for 4 months now. We have a 8 year old daughter [...]

Q: My wife has been very distant for about a month now. I’ve discussed it with her and she explains that it’s due to the different careers we are both headed for. Our careers are possibly going to cause us to separate for months at a time. She says it concerns her and now we [...]

Q: I was very close to a female friend of mine. She used to treat me as her boyfriend. Due to some misunderstanding, she now feels I am a platonic friend. I thought I had cleared it up out in the open, but she still feels the pinch of it. Actually she is now feeling [...]

Q: I have been in a relationship for almost a year. To give you a little background, we met and shortly after we started dating, and shortly after that she moved in with me. That was probably 8 or 9 months ago.
Now my problem is that for the past couple of months I have felt [...]

Q: Hi, thanks for your time.
A girl I have been seeing for about three months now has all of a sudden decided that she wants to take a break from me. Here’s my story:
I’ve known of this beautiful and intelligent girl for years but never made any attempt at meeting her. Three months ago we [...]

Q: I wish I found this site 3 days ago. For a little over 2 months, an acquaintance seemed to give subtle hints he was interested in me. I frequently responded in kind. Three days ago he phoned out of the blue and asked if I wanted to go to a ballgame that afternoon. I [...]

Q: Hi, I was wondering if emails tend to destroy long distance relationships? My husband and I are in different countries right now, and we email more than call. I’ve noticed we tend to fight more and when I write him a letter expressing my POV on a subject, he usually takes it wrong because [...]

Q: Hi, my boyfriend of two and a half years has broken up with me. We had dated for a year or so and we had broken up but we got back together because we thought there was something left between us. Now that we have broken up twice, do you think there is another [...]

Q: Hey dude- love your blog. Got a question for you bro- my girl has been talking about doing porno on the internet for extra cash- nothing hardcore, know what I’m saying?  Just cam stuff- I don’t know what to think…. you look like you know what you are talking ’bout. What do you think?
-Sam
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