Archives for the ‘Reader Mailbag’ Category

Mailbag: How do I learn to love myself?

By • Sep 9th, 2009 • Category: Reader Mailbag

Q: Hi, my boyfriend of two and a half years has broken up with me. We had dated for a year or so and we had broken up but we got back together because we thought there was something left between us. Now that we have broken up twice, do you think there is another [...]



Mailbag: My girlfriend wants to do porn!

By • Sep 4th, 2009 • Category: Reader Mailbag

Q: Hey dude- love your blog. Got a question for you bro- my girl has been talking about doing porno on the internet for extra cash- nothing hardcore, know what I’m saying?  Just cam stuff- I don’t know what to think…. you look like you know what you are talking ’bout. What do you think? [...]



Mailbag: Should I go through with an arranged marriage?

By • Sep 3rd, 2009 • Category: Reader Mailbag

Q: If you have been dreaming for someone for eight years and one day one person comes along who is exactly who you’ve been dreaming of,  then what should you do even if you are supposed to have an arranged marriage? Please reply quickly. A: Thanks for the question and coming here for guidance before [...]



Mailbag: My gf reminds me too much of my ex

By • Sep 2nd, 2009 • Category: Reader Mailbag

Q: I’m starting to date a woman that I’m very attracted to and that I always have fun with. Sounds good, right? Well, I’m worried because, when I think about it, she reminds me a lot of an ex that I was particularly close to. Is this bad? I don’t want to go into it if [...]



Mailbag: Help! I am pushing away my partner by being too nice

By • Sep 1st, 2009 • Category: Reader Mailbag

Q: I have been going out with my partner for 6 months and I have to say (I know this is cheesy) but she really is ‘the one’. She has a small child and runs her own business so is ultra busy. She’s also just been diagnosed with an illness.  Lately, the physical nature of the [...]



Mailbag: Is it possible to reclaim attraction once it is gone?

By • Aug 10th, 2009 • Category: Reader Mailbag

Q: I met a guy 3 years ago. We went on 3 wonderful dates (I fell for him hard) and then he dumped me. He said he did not get butterflies when he saw me. Weird, as he had jokingly proposed to me on every date. After 3 years of no contact he emailed me [...]



Mailbag: How much should I spend on a ring?

By • Aug 4th, 2009 • Category: Reader Mailbag

Q: Hi, how much should a guy spend on a wedding ring?  I know you are probably very busy but I was hoping you could give me a couple pointers.  Any help appreciated.  Thank you so much. -Paul A: That’s a very good question, especially because there is no definite, black and white answer. One [...]



Mailbag: Can I ever forgive myself for the things I’ve done?

By • Jul 23rd, 2009 • Category: Reader Mailbag

Q: After 1 year that has passed, I am still healing from a first love relationship. My ex has completely moved on, in love with a new girlfriend, and it still hurts to this point, just not as much as last year. I still think about the situation each day. Technically, we were “officially together” [...]



Mailbag: Is it possible to get together after years of being apart?

By • Jul 17th, 2009 • Category: Reader Mailbag

Q: My ex and I had a wonderful relationship for 2 1/2 years. We were both international students and met at the graduate school when I was 28 and he was 27. In our last 10 months we had been living together in an apartment we rented. He had begged me to move in with [...]



Mailbag: How do I reform a player?

By • Jul 16th, 2009 • Category: Reader Mailbag

Q: How do I make a player fall in love with me? i mean he’s not open about being a player, it’s not obvious but I can tell.and now he thinks I’m okay with it and all I want is a hook up.. but I want a relationship. What should i do? -Jordan A: Hi [...]