Archives for the ‘Reader Mailbag’ Category

Mailbag: My long-term bf won’t propose to me

By • Jun 24th, 2009 • Category: Reader Mailbag

Q: OK- so I’ve been with my guy for 10 years! We met in college and have been together ever since. We broke up once when we were 20. We are now 29 and still not married! He says how he wants to have kids and we are planning on buying a house next year. [...]



Mailbag: How do I create intimacy with my virgin gf without having sex?

By • Jun 22nd, 2009 • Category: Reader Mailbag

Q: My girlfriend and I just spent yesterday together. We have been talking about touching and feeling each other for a little while now and yesterday we started. I massaged her breasts and and then she gave me a genital massage and a tiny bit of oral. None of this was pressured or expected. It [...]



Mailbag: My ex is going out of his way to hurt me

By • Jun 5th, 2009 • Category: Reader Mailbag

Q: My ex boyfriend dumped me over a month ago. We tried to be friends, but could barely manage meager hellos to each other in the school halls. I asked him to get back together with me once about a week after the breakup he told me he didn’t see me as the girl he [...]



Mailbag: Help! My new guy is having performance problems!

By • Jun 2nd, 2009 • Category: Reader Mailbag

Q: Well, I started seeing this guy, 40 years old, divorced, 5 kids…very nice guy though. When we had sex for the first time he didn’t work; we thought that maybe it was because he was in a marriage for 20 years and I am his first date. Yesterday I made dinner, very nice music [...]



Mailbag: Dealing with the fear of breaking up

By • May 21st, 2009 • Category: Reader Mailbag

Q: How do you get past the fear of breaking up with someone when you’re not even sure it is the best decision?   A: Hi, this is probably the shortest question I’ve ever received, but it is definitely a great question deserving of an answer. This is particularly a good question because it is something [...]



Mailbag: Should my friends still maintain contact with my ex?

By • May 18th, 2009 • Category: Reader Mailbag

Q: Not sure what to do.  My ex-girlfriend and I dated for 7 years and we broke up 3 years ago. During our relationship she developed close ties with most of my friends. When our relationship ended, one of my closest friends continued his friendship with her. From a third party, I found out that their [...]



Mailbag: My gf is still obsessed with her ex, even though he’s married!

By • May 13th, 2009 • Category: Reader Mailbag

Q: I’ve been dating this girl for almost almost a year. Her ex boyfriend hurt her pretty bad and when he heard that she was dating someone else, he repeatedly tried to call/e-mail her. I asked her a few times to stop answering his calls and e-mails but even though she promised she never did. [...]



Mailbag: I’m in love with a younger man

By • May 12th, 2009 • Category: Reader Mailbag

Q: About six years ago, just before my husband died unexpectedly, we adopted two children. After the death of my husband our natural-born son became an important man figure in their lives. He became a sheriff. Six months ago he was killed in the line of duty. Since then his best friend who is 20 [...]



Mailbag: Help! My gf runs hot and cold!

By • May 7th, 2009 • Category: Reader Mailbag

Q: My girlfriend is hot and cold. One day she burns up my phone and the next she barely speaks. She tells me that she’s in love with me and loves spending time with me. We even talked about getting married–she printed up house plans only to avoid me the next day. Finally she told [...]



Mailbag: My bf’s ex is interfering with our relationship

By • May 6th, 2009 • Category: Reader Mailbag

Q: My boyfriend’s ex is related to me and she is now trying to break us up. She found out that I am dating him (my boyfriend) after about a year and was very angry with the pair of us. My boyfriend never told me she was his ex; he said they were only friends [...]