You’re dating a guy who you really like, but something is just wrong. You can feel it in your gut. He tells you he likes you, he is very charming and sweet when you are together, but something is missing.

He goes days without calling you. He cancels dates at the last minute. His behavior is just very inconsistent.

You’ve all probably heard of the book “He’s Just Not that Into You” by Greg Behrendt and Liz Tucillo, in which the authors drive the point home that “if a (sane) guy really likes you, there ain’t nothing that’s going to get in his way.” Truer words were never spoken.

Men by nature are very aggressive and task-oriented. If the man is very interested in you, trust me, his intentions will be very, very clear. If you are not getting what you want out of the relationship and you constantly find yourself alone, wondering about your guy and wishing he was there, then just realize: He’s Just Not That Into You.

And it’s time for you to move on.