There are a lot of horrible names your lover can call you. These names can be used to hurt or insult you, they can be curse words, or words meant to degrade your personality or physical attribute. Words can be hurled at you in anger or as revenge.  Some of these words can be justified, some are just way out of line.  Let’s assume for a moment that you didn’t do anything especially heinous. You have just been going about your daily life, hurting no one, and BAM! out of nowhere your lover calls you something which is so terrible and disastrous, that this word, above all others, is the word that most likely signals that your relationship is on its way to its demise.

What word is this?

What word, when uttered by a woman almost guarantees that you will soon find yourself single?

It’s probably not what you think. It’s not a swear word and it’s definitely not blasphemous, but yet it cuts far deeper than any curse word imaginable. When uttered by a woman, the word- B-O-R-I-N-G is the worst word that can be uttered by her lips.

Boring? BORING? The worst word?

Yes.

Worse than a-hole or jerk or scumbag. Worse than dumb, stinky, ugly, and loser. Yes, even worse than “small penis.”

THE WORST.

The reason for this is simple. BORING is the antithesis of absolutely everything that a woman is attracted to. She is attracted to confidence, aggression, mystery, adventure, intrigue, assertiveness, charisma… and when she says that you are boring, she is implying that you are none of these.  If she calls you an a-hole or jerk, you actually have to look at the context to truly understand what she means- for example, a woman may refer to a brash, aggressive guy as an a-hole, while secretly admiring him and being attracted.  As far as “stupid” or “loser”, those words are often said while in a state of anger and is often accompanied by an emotional attachment to the conversation. Not with “boring.” No, “boring” can be said with great passion or soberly, with no emotion whatsoever. It is usually said after great thought, and often expressed with conviction and condemnation. It is the postscript to a soon-to-be dead relationship.

Guys, if you ever hear your lady tell you or anyone else that you are boring, this is your sign that something needs to change immediately. She doesn’t just mean that you don’t go out much. What she is actually saying is that you are not giving her the masculine stimulation that she craves…. and that you are on your way out.

Remember, just because you got the girl doesn’t mean you can turn off all of your characteristics that got her attracted to you in the first place.